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cant win for losin's picture

Submitted by cant win for losin on Thu, 11/10/2011 - 10:27pm

"Other's always have their OWN expectations on what OUR role as stepmothers should be."

I read that line in another forum. I believe there is so much truth to that.

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Ifeeya's picture

Submitted by Ifeeya on Thu, 11/10/2011 - 10:47pm

Yes, very true what that quote is saying above.

However, to think that DH is completely innocent is a little naive. No body gains in the second marriage. It is hurting every one: if not you, then the children, if not the children, then the DH, if not the DH, than you, and as much as we all hate to agree it is hurting the BM too.

There is no benefits for anyone in the second marriage: it is hurting every one involved.

You are teaching the children that marrying a DH with kids is OK.

wickedstepqueen's picture

Submitted by wickedstepqueen on Fri, 11/11/2011 - 7:31am

How in the world does it hurt BM. In my case BM was a lying skank who decided to have an affair and then not know who baby-daddy was.

How did it hurt DH? He moved on to find his true love and not be married to someone who was an uber-bitch.

Did it hurt the skids? No, our remarriage did not hurt them. The breakup of their parents which resulted from ther lying skank mother did. Her introducing them to her new flavors does.

What did they learn? That it is not okay to have other relations while still married because THAT is what breaks up a marriage.

So if parents divorce that to spare the skids fee-fees that parents should remain alone? SO a DH should bre punished because his ex was a lying skank who betrayed him? Or better yet, he should just put up with her screwing the world while he plays guilty martyr daddy?

Yeah right!