SD17 said I held up a pair of Victoria Secret Panties... and looked at her and said............
I am about to SCREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so FED up with lies. Crazy ass BM #1 told SO that when I FIRST met SD17 (2 years ago) and I took her shopping... that I did something that damaged her. Her words were I took her and my daughter and another girl into Victorias's Secret while looking at THONG underwear I held up some lacy pair and said to HER directly. Your dad would LOVE these.......... ARE YOU FREAKEN KIDDING ME??????????
Let me tell you all how that day went down. I took SD17 shopping with my daughter and a mutual friend of BOTH of theirs. I let the girls go off on their own for a while. THEY went into VS without me..... Because I knew how my SO felt about his daughter buying underwear there. When I caught up with them I noticed they shopped there. I asked SD17 if her dad or mom said it was ok. She said I have thousands of underwear from there it's not a big deal. I said ok. I then spent the rest of the day with the girls. Took them out to eat and PAID for a food bill that was nearly $100.
Oh Oh Oh I almost forgot the girls went into a photo booth.... to get pics together. SD17 took OFF Her shirt for the pictures.......... YET I am the one who did something wrong? Shit you have got to be kidding me.
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Did you just find out about
:jawdrop:
Did you just find out about this story?
I sure did. Every time BM
I sure did. Every time BM comes at him and talks about me HE never tells me what is said. So last night I told him this is BS we are big people now. I deserve to know what garbage she is saying. You can't just bla bla bla that crap.
I was PIST when he told me last night that they said that.
Really? Sounds like BM is
Really? Sounds like BM is making up stuff to make you look bad. DH SHOULD say to her "I am surprised SD isn't in therapy. Seeing this has emotionally scarred her so badly she urgently needs to see a counsellor so she can lead a productive life. I will call around first thing and see if we can't get her into someone tomorrow or Friday... No, no. She needs to see someone who can help her...Well if it has hurt her so badly why has it taken you 2 years to let me know? If you were so worried why hasn't she seen a counsellor? And why was she the ONLY one to buy items that day from VS? And have you seen the photo booth photo she took with her friend? I will let you know as soon as I can find therapist or counsellor."
I would like to make copies
I would like to make copies of those photos and mail them to BM...... but at this point I think it's best that I not respond to her AT all. It's too bad our DH's aren't as smart as we would like them to be....
Time for you and Dad to have
Time for you and Dad to have a sit down with SD to clear this up. If he's not willing to do that, resentment towards both him and SD will build. I wonder how many other things she has made up about you that you've yet to hear about?
That would be great if we
That would be great if we could do that. SD17 refuses to have anything to do with me. And right now his ex isn't letting him have contact of ANY kind with his kids due to him being with me... We tried ALL summer to get SD17 to try or to work on things. She refused every single time.
My 2 oldest skids are both
My 2 oldest skids are both adopted by my SO too!!!! She had SD17 then got prego again by the same dirtbag then met my SO and she was prego with the 2nd one. He adopted both after SS15 was born.
These 2 women want me gone. BM even stated in a text that last summer I got the shit end of the stick and now HER and HER daughter are getting it and it's BS. He isn't giving SD17 the short end he is simply showing her that if she isn't going to respect the house we all live in including me than she isn't coming. It's not that hard. We have next to nothing on rules....... her issue is simple. It's me. SD17 asked him to not show me any affection in front of them. That it is not appropriate for us to behave that way in front of Skids..... I'm sorry but I'm not his friend. And we will hold hands. We will sit next to each other on the couch. We will giggle in the kitchen. We will cook together. We will laugh together. She isn't his WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And therefore since she doesn't understand this. I fear this is what life will be like for a very long long long time.