So ss17 and sd14 have gone to BMs for the night (Saturday night). That means DH amd I get one blissful Saturday night and Sunday morning without having to put up with their bs-rude, insolent behaviour and gaming at 4am, while I try to get our DD2 to sleep through and 39 weeks pregnant.

we wake up on Sunday morning early, and settle down to watch some tv in bed. Bliss. We never get to do this normally because of all the interruptions (coddled teenagers who just walk into our bedroom without onocking to demand lifts to the local gym-I suspect so they can deal drugs-these skids neither fo to school, work nor give DH nor I the time of day in our own home).

DH sees he had 5 missed calls from ss17 at 3am and is worried and upset. Tries calling ss17 back. Tries calling SD14. Gets no answer from either of them. Is now pacing the house and procrastinating over whether or not to drive over to BMs to make sure everything is ok. 

I'm sure skids are fine-either Ss17 wanted something or was put up to calling DHS phone at 3am by BM.

I'm trying  to keep a straight face, mask my disappointment in our weekend now effectively over, DH may be here physically but his mind is elsewhere.

I can't say that ss17 only ever rings us when he wants something, and he would give zero thought to the fact it was 3am when he rang.
 

How do they still manage to ruin everything even when they are not here?