But the words that came out of her mouth were NOT what I expected. At all.

So, SS comes home and BM is standing at the door behind him when he comes in. I tell her to come in but notice her car is still running, so I figured she would have some excuse as to why she can't talk now. But normally, she would send SS in and text me or call me with her excuse (which I gladly except because I don't need or want to listen to her bullshit). So it was a little confusing. She says she left her car running to charge her phone, but she wanted to tell me a few things real quick. I told SS to go get in the shower.

She goes on to tell me that she is moving out of her house this weekend (she has said this at LEAST 2 dozen times in the past 4 months) and that she has no idea where she is going. She will just "crash on couches until something turns up". She goes on to say that her "room mates" never moved out and there is a ton of tension in the house. (who cares) She says she talked to SS to get a feel for what he wanted as far as seeing her and staying with her at all. Apparently SS told her that he likes the way things are right now and he doesn't want to stay with her. She says he told her that he is relieved that he doesn't have to stay there anymore and she doesn't need to worry about him. She said that there is just no way she can take care of him right now, she doesn't even have a refrigerator at her house and she is going to sell the washer and dryer that my MIL bought her for the cash because she needs it. She has no idea where she is going to store all of her stuff.
I told her that SS is very happy with how things are right now. This is the best I have seen him in a very very long time. As we were wrapping up the conversation, I could hear SS coming out of the bathroom. He didn't realize that BM stayed, so he didn't know she was there when he opened the door, which is down the hall not in view of where we were standing... SS starts singing as loud as he can, a song he made up over the past few weeks which consists of a very juvenile version of my nickname something along the lines of "MeeMee I love you, I love you MeeMee". He is 12 years old, but there are times I swear the kid acts like he is 3. But... he is just joking around when he does it. He sings that song because he knows it makes me laugh. He went in to his room and shut the door. BM kinda gave me a side eye look and I explained what the name was that he was singing "that's what he has been calling me lately". BM's eyes filled up with tears and she said she had to go.

I don't know what BM's version of "rock bottom" is. It is clearly not the same as my idea of rock bottom. She talked about staying with Meth Man but not on a regular or permanent basis. I wanted to ask her if they were still together since FB says otherwise, but I don't want her to know I can see it. So I just let it go. She told SS she would see him this weekend. I would be wiling to put money on her not even calling.