I feel your pain.. My SS6 is the same way.. My fiance is always taking his side. The boy seriously cries at the drop of a hat. He is always saying that its my kids fault for everything. But doesnt mention that the reason they were mean was because he was annoying them or kicking them or just being his usual pain in the ass self. He got my daughter in trouble on time by saying she was the one that broke something when he was the one who really did it. And his father was so quick to listen to his little prince. It took a long time to convince my fiance that his little golden boy was a liar. Im pretty sure there is some resentment in the fact that im always trying to point out that this kid is not perfect. I think this is going to be a forever battle in our house. He doesnt want to hear anything remotely negative about either of his boys.. The other one is 3.. Our every other weekends are hell.. i try hiding out in my room as much as possible and i even changed my work schedule so that im working on the weekends that they are here..