*blink blink* and *crickets*

there was probably a time when i'd say something like 'fuck off' or whatever, but over time, guess what? i just dont give a shit

To BM: You really are the biggest piece of BM I've ever come across in my whole life!

You suck, and you know why.

That is all.

She can't be bothered to work but then cries poor. She was bound and determined to get SD on "her side" in the divorce and make sure SD hated me when DH and I married. She succeeded in both, but it didn't make her happy. Congratulations.

Ex: A simple kick in the balls would sum up any words that were left, but I'm with Tuff... I don't care

BM: Nothing to really say, I am just patiently waiting for her to take her ride on the karma bus... because it will be one bumpy ass ride.

BM1: thanks for destroying your son, you have only yourself to blame. Also, thanks for not getting him the help he needed, when he needed it so he didn't have to molest his half-siblings to get away from you.
BM2: thanks for ruining your daughter's chance at every learning what a normal, healthy relationship looks like. You will reap what you have sown & by excluding us, you will get it ALL!

To bm #1....get off the drugs and pay your kids attention.... Stop acting like they dont exist.....
To ex sm trying to still act like the mom....he divorced you cause you were and still are a cheating lying trashy b..ch ....nothing is going to chance that.....only you can......clean your house up before they condemned it...
To bd....please when have you ever help out? You can't even send a birthday card or a quick phone call....

I used to think about the things I'd say to BM but really, she's just not worth the energy.

I did call her a name many years ago and told her I would sue her for harassment, only because she kept calling me one night. I have had very few dealings with her since.

To BM. When MIL said you were one woman on earth that should not had kids she was right. I swear I think you had them just to say you did it. You spent years putting them in day care, then shuffle them into bed ASAP after you get through getting them fed at the restaurants you took them day after day all their lives. You have not taught them how to cook in the kitchen. Neither one has any surviving skills. Neither one knows how to wash their own clothes. You spent years shuffling them to day care to baby sitters on the weekend because you feel you had the rights to party every weekend. You were ready to shuffle them to our house a day after school for summer break.

This behavior of yours grossed me out. I have never known a mother who was ready to detach from her babies so soon. I have known other mothers, my mother, myself would like to spend some time with my child before they left me. I would never gave up my thanksgiving time or christmas time with them either like you did. It clearly shows that your kids really do not want to be around you if you gave up your time with them so easily. You never inbred what a mother should be.

You do nothing but buy their love and you did what I figure you would do. By the time they got into their teenage years and got into extra curricular activities you was going to become party mom, you told your ex you wanted to be more around your kids now before they grew all the way up and be on there own. You must be the center of your daughters activities. You're that embarrassing mom sitting out in the stands screaming your head off calling it support for your daughter's team as if you were there all alone.

You can never take the party girl out of a woman. Once a party girl always a party girl.

You have taught your daughters to marry rich if they are going to survive. So sad.....

I would tell her she's a damn skeleton with skin and to hump a cactus.

She's not worth a single breath's worth of words. Ignoring her existence pisses her off more than anything I could ever say!

Would never hear the truth but I'd want to ask my mom why she tried to offer my DH a BJ. Also want to know if she did anything with my EX DH while him and I were still married. I'm glad that my current DH came and told me what my BM was trying to do behind my back, before that I never understood why guys changed around me once my BM would come around.

I never say anything "off record"...its ALWAYS on the record.....I don't have a problem telling exH or BM what I think about them... }:)