Some times when we have stress and so much going on I really wish my DH would say "I'm not getting the kids tonight" Augh. I know that's terrible. I'd never say that about mine. But I do feel that way. I think the difference is mine aren't as screwed up, they don't take as much work, bc they're not fighting, whining, starved for attention... Idk. I know we need to be consistent. And we never forgo having them, but sometimes I dream about it. Haha. Ugh.