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Submitted by Bradymom on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 8:33am

Well. Shit just hit the fan. He's 13. 13. I just said, "I put the blanket between you so you wouldn't bother each other, so lay towards the window, not on her & you should be belted in. Please do it now. Don't unbelt again." The 13 year old tit-mouth is crying. Crying. Yup. Bawling. No shit. Yay me. Yep gunna cry over it. Please. Why. Me. Oh yeah... His dad... I'm madly in love with him. Ugh. That's the only thing that dumb ass has going for him. He has a sweet ass fine dad. Haha. That's IT. His best quality. His dad. Only good quality. Actually. Grrrr. 13 year old bawling over not being able to harass sister & not be unbelted. Great.

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Submitted by Bradymom on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 9:08am

Yep. Oh. I'm sure his mom is calling the counselor over it as we speak. No shit. She's highly reactionary.

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Submitted by Bradymom on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 10:10am

We did this last month. He didn't go with us to a football game. I think he's forgotten.

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Submitted by Bradymom on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 10:56am

He does NOT RESPOND TO TALKING. I have told my husband that. We only get results with punishment. Some kids are like that.

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 11:04am

I fear for the future when this lot has to possibly go to war to defend their country.

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 11:16am

I bet his drill instructors at military school could teach him to man up a bit. }:)

Just food for thought.... Bwahahahaha!!

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Submitted by Bradymom on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 11:51am

SS13 picks and eats his boogers, pees his bed, kisses his mom on the lips in public, sits on his mom's lap at sporting events, cries all the time, sleeps with full lights on, touches his sister inappropriately, wears my underwear--- if I don't skim the dirty clothes (I know--- I know) and a million other discusting other nasty disturbing things. I can't imagine him having a girl friend, let alone becoming a functioning member of society or a member of any armed forces. Dear god. :-o

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Submitted by oneoffour on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 1:04pm

Pull over and tell him to either get out and walk or put his seat belt on. When he says no tell him you are waiting for the next cop to drive by and you are flagging him down to ask the cop to speak to him. OR you will call a cop to come out to talk to him. AND you will be recording it all on your phone so his mother can see EXACTLY why the police were called.

The next time he gets in the car and doesn't put on his seatbelt do not start the car. If he starts crying tell him either he stops crying or he will be left behind and his mother can come and get him. If he cries even more tell him to get out of your car right now.

Oh fuck it. Refuse to drive with him ANYWHERE. Take 2 cars until DH gets sick of the extra gas used. And tell his mother that as her son refuses to obey the law you will not drive him anywhere due to liability issues. Because sure as eggs, if you have a small accident and he gets hurt because he didn't wear his seatbelt she will sue the arse off you and DH.

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 1:42pm

Hit the brakes hard, he'll smack into the seat in front of him, tell him buckle up then. Do it every time then when he whines to someone tell them he's full of shit and lying that he knows better than to unbuckle so how could that be true

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Submitted by LuckyGirl on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 2:17pm

How can you be "madly in love" with a man who lets his children behave like this???? Jeeesus I would come down on his arse so hard it would hurt into next week and that would be before my SO got hold of him. SMH.

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Submitted by ctnmom on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 2:34pm

Seriously, ^^^^THIS^^^^. I get so sick of my own kind (women) saying "MY SO is perrrrfect in every wayyyy, he's my SOULMATE, he just has these 1/2 dozen queer acting, horrific kids that hate me", well, who MADE those kids? 99% of the time, the SO is the problem. Do you know how quick CTBB or one of my bios would be shut down for blubbering in the car if they had to put on a seatbelt? AT AGE 13??? That would be the embarrassment of their life, either coming from me or DH. They would never live it down.

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Submitted by LuckyGirl on Fri, 12/27/2013 - 3:26pm

I'm sorry but this is b*llocks. The kids did not create themselves, neither are they supposed to raise themselves. That is their parent's job.
I could not respect a man who did not respect himself and his children enough to act like a parent. Parenting is a full-time job with no time off, either you are clear about this before you have children, or you don't have them.
Your SO needs to man up.

Edited to add - sorry I meant to reply to Bradymom's comment!