Last Friday DH and I were on the edge if we did not call our truce (previous blog) we would not be together. Neither one of liked what we saw coming and we stepped back. Made an agreement, and are spending 30 days working on building a loving marriage. We will talk about issues only as they come up, and only with our counselor. At home everything has been like the beginning of our relationship and I find I actually like him again, and all the little things I fell I love with him over, that had turned into the very reasons he drove me insane, are back to being so darn cute.
SGD has been back with SD28 for 3 weeks. DH told me about a conversation with SD. SGD blames me for DH keeping her away from her mom for 9 months. My line was crossed and I told DH have whatever relationship you want... Away from me, away from my children, away from our home. If you let SGD see her you better make sure you are home to deal with any problems as I will not. DH told SD to tell SGD the truth, it was him. SD doesn't want SGD to have any negative feelings about DH. I personally think SD blames me as well. Yep, let's blame SM because that sounds good. I told DH I think it is crap. His response??? They don't live here so it doesn't matter anyways.
I know he can't make them see that it was DH and not me. But I know SD28, and SGD11 and I will never have a relationship. I will not be blamed for things I did not do. DH has told them it was him, they want to blame me, and there is no way he can change their minds. I just hope he knows because of crap like this his family will always be divided.