Ok so U have a question my daughter father hasn't been there for her for the past 7 years he contacts me once in awhile and every four years or so and tries to say hello and wants to see if you can meet his daughter until the last time I heard of him was when she was one years old he doesn't pay child support but nothing recently he contacted me and wants to talk. She is 7 now my fiance her dad has been there for her whole 7 years now he's telling me if I choose to speak to her Bo father that he doesn't want her to call him and sad and want and if she does he's going to feel awkward.