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Who do you call if you get locked up (DUI)- your kid of course!

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Our BM never ceases to amaze me.  Remember, she lost custody of SD around age 14 because of her meth addiction.  Granted after some years, she DID get clean and was even employed again (hospital no less).  She has of course continued her back/forth w/her methy abusive husband, who rotates between rehab, hospitals, jail and back to her.  She continues to torment SD with her bi-polar crazy rants over the phone and guilt trips, etc.

Just a normal vent

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Just a normal vent.  Thanksgiving actually went really well,  SD joined my family and my mom's new beau for a meal out and then we went to her new boyfriends house for a bit to meet them.  All going well w/her on that front. My son is doing much better-so I should be grateful.

I wonder if he got custody? Another tragic ending...

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Just read about this horrific story!  They said they had just finalized divorce the week prior.  I wonder if she had lost custody, or didn't get the custody she wanted?  I'm really curious to see how this unfolds.  That dad/family have to be devastated, those poor kids!!!

And FYI-not attacking just moms here, there are TONS more violence stats relating to men doing this murder suicide act during divorce/seperations in reality...but it's always so chilling!! 

Am I becoming a SD????

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Wow- so mom hit me with something unexpected yesterday.  My mom and dad were married 45 years, he passed 3.5 years ago after a long/horrific battle with cancer.  What we all went through was horrible.   My parents were soul mates/best friends and mom had a VERY hard time grieving him.  She has been very lonely, depressed, and has often said she would remarry and didn't want to be alone.

We did it!!! We eloped!

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So on Tuesday we eloped up in the beautiful mountains in Dahlonega.  The ceremony was very  nice, sweet and simple.  DH teared up most of it....I fought mine a few times.  Loved the ceremony site and minister we had.

Was a very long day- with loading car and dogs in the Outback and then driving there was HORRIBLE traffic-we were an hour plus late to our own wedding ha!  He snapped some pics (minister) w/my phone of just us and then us w/the pups and we were off to our cabin.

The dreaded NAME CHANGE topic

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This is a hot topic, it is for me...it normally upsets me so bad when other people have opinions on what women do with their names, namely because MEN don't have that problem!!!  Women should be sensitive to eachother and realize it's their business what choice they make.

THAT said... here's MY current situation.  When I divorced 15yrs ago I kept my exe's name.  MY choice.   1. Kept kids names 2. kept career name 3.didn't want to even THINK of paperwork involved for it to happen.

We're tying the knot

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After eventful and crazy 10 years together-living together for 7, engaged for almost 5.  There is my DS18, DS19 and SD18. 

We booked a place in GA mountains with a beautiful setting for just us two to elope and spending some days at a cabin with our pups.  The place even has a super large dog kennel area for pups to use during the ceremony.

Back from sugery guys!! Not surprised and SD and MIL's lack of empathy.

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So, all, I came back from surgery yesterday for my broken tibia/fibula right above ankle area-I have a little mini hardware store now in my leg.   I was blown away on the care/treatment I got from every single person there. Outstanding!  All went well and am back home.  Heavily medicated and I had two nerve blocks that thank god have not fully worn out yet !

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