it hasnt even been a solid month of my SD being in the temp. group home and already she has made every girl there HATE her! i saw LOL to this! little brat deserves it! ok so a few days ago i guess my SD had a disagreement or something with an older girl (were talking a bigger older girl..at least a teen) so my SD slammed down her books and balled up her tiny pathetic fist towards the other girl..staff immediately intervened because as one staff member said "this girl could throw her to the ground in a second" my SD is sooooo scrawny and short for her age group that no one would have a problem kicking her butt! i wish it would have happend too! see my SD has a HUGE mouth on her and a attitude to match and every time she has caused conflict with others its been in areas she feels safe..she knew that if she caused a fight at school for example that teachers would intervene and stop it before she got hurt..now in the placement she is in now she knows that staff will intervene..after she gets out of placement she will be in middle school and i dont think shes going to be so lucky when she gets there..i dont see her attitude or her big mouth changing..she is the kind of girl that is ALWAYS jealous of any girl she lays eyes on and that even includes me..ohhh yeah this brat gets on my case so much that it takes all my will power to not lay a hand on her and i never have so im very proud of myself! even the teachers at her old school HATED her but that was because she gave them hell on a daily basis..her last day of school a fam member went to pick her up and while she was waiting in the bathroom a teacher yelled to my SD "get your ass out of that bathroom" i thought my SD was just lying about the teacher but nope my fam member confirmed it was true..she may be mouthy and she may have her big bad attitude but someone or a group of people are going to get her when she least expects it..ugh shes sooooo annoiying! what i cannot stand most about her isnt her destructive behavior or even her violence towards me its her lies..she lies about EVERYTHING! she threatens her dad and i that she will tell others we are so mean to her and do unthinkable things to her..well guesss what?! not one damn person in her whole school believed her and NONE of what she said was true anyway..so then she resorted to telling all her little "friends" not even kids her own age were talking 9yr olds and below..thats how pathetic she is she cant even have friends her own age cuz everyone hates her cuz of her hateful attitude and i dont blame them..i dont even like her and im the adult! i used to care but nope not anymore! i only deal with her when necessary and i figure she wants to be otu of control then fine she can and later when shes locked up in juvie or gets her first black eye from anotehr student i can have the luxury of laughing at her while saying i told ya so! im just sooooooo glad shes gone for at least six months..and yeah the girls hate her there and she hates them but she kisses the staffs butt as she always does..shes a little suckup until ya really start laying down rules then she gets mean and nasty and violent..they said so far they havent seen any sign of her lashing out at staff but they have seen it with numerous other girls but i just say give it time..once her little fun time is over and shes had time to settle in they plan to unlease strict rules on her as they do all the others ..its part of their plan to get the kid to show their true self..i just hope it works with my SD as she is soooo strong willed and a master at manipulation but they said that they have never seen a single kid that came in there last forever so maybe there is hope that they will see the real brat yet...