Okay so My SD5 is currently on Vaca with her mom and family, she will be back in a few days. BM has been keeping me updated with how SD5 is and such...working out a time for DH to call and talk to her etc.
anyway I found out that SD5 has been horrible on this trip. BM was telling me that they even had to leave a movie due to her making a huge scene and just hasn't been well behaved the whole time.

Now we are going on our vacation with her and our BD1 in a couple weeks and it makes me nervous that that is how she will be acting on our family vacation, we are going out to a wedding and decided to make it a family trip...going to a water park, zoo etc Me and DH have decided that if she doesn't behave we won't do all the things we have planned for her...as much as i want to stick to it, i will feel horrible to not do all the things we have planned....

I just hope it all works out...

that's my little rant for today