okay so last week Dh & Myself found out that BMs boyfriend works as a dishwasher at a local restaurant... i was surprised he was actually working....then we found out he no longer lives with BM, he has been staying with his friend.... and the more i thought about it the more i realize he hasn't been there when I picked up SD5 the last few times (just assumed he was out getting high/drunk)... hope this one sticks...They are on and off like people change their socks :/ its a horrible environment for SD5 & her sister....

I had to giggle to myself tho...