I love my husband to death. We got married about two years ago. He has a kid that lives with us. It drives me absolutely crazy that my husband will not be consistent with the kid and send him to his mom's house every weekend and for the summer. Instead, he wants me to be his mom. I told him that I am his helpmate, not the kid's mom. He has a mom however my husband does not hold her accountable for anything in the kid's life. I told my husband that I wouldn't have married him if I would have known he was not going to be consistent. Any advice before I file my paperwork....