So...my SD13 is coming to visit. We have not seen her since July (her birthday). This has been her decision (supported by BM) & yes, my FH has asked her to come over on the rare phone calls he is blessed to receive. Already, we have drama & lies & she isn't even here yet!

I have not spoken to SD13 since her visit in July. I have no reason to as she is great & loving to my face yet bad mouths me to everyone including my FH...apparently I'm not as good as his exg who he dated for less than 3 months...his exg was very immature (didn't watch her own kids who colored on the walls at 8 years old!) & LOVED girly talk/time with my FH's tween daughters...that is why they didn't last...she's a horrid mother & spent more time with tweens than she did her own little ones or him. Also, he found out she's a felon for drug manufacturing so obviously...she was a winner! The comparisons started in Feb of last year & have gotten worse. We've been together going on 3 yrs.

NOW, I get a text out of the blue telling me I "need to dye" her hair...ummm...yeah...ok...whatever. I would normally oblige as my poor FH has no clue BUT she then tells him that I TOLD HER SHE HAD TO BUY IT...infact, I texted back "good to hear from you...I'm great, thanks for asking! Do you have dye or do we need to pick it up?"...so now I'm of course totally disinclined to do it. FH made a pouty face before leaving to pick her up as I told him that I will do nothing for lying little sh*ts...we shall see.

Also, I have live in Skids, SD7 & SS8...I take care of them like they are my own...their BM is a useless piece of dried up nasty. For Christmas, I bought them Nintendo DS's as they had no games or game systems. NOW...this little gem of a SD13 has TOLD HER DAD (after not having seen her for MONTHS & her nastiness to her dad over everything, me included) that he HAS to give her $200 for a phone upgrade because the live in skids gifts cost $200! I'm sorry but WHAT??? He tells me this & I laughed...I said firstly, I purchased skid DS's, not you...secondly, she gets $200 when hell freezes over or rainbows come out of my a**! He is totally on my side but he is such a softy with her...he just wants to be her dad & she's knows he'll let her get away with murder! Makes me crazy!

Anyways...had to vent...drama has started & she's not even here yet! UGH! Keep my patience level in your thoughts!