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Submitted by anbacc on Sat, 01/02/2010 - 10:30pm

My husbands ex has done nothing but try to make our marriage and family fall apart. She has went out of her way to convince my 11 year old step daughter that I am a horrible person and It's a battle to maintain a positive relationship with her because of it. I am trying my best to build a bond with my SD and with every visit with her mother I feel like I have to start all over.

Now on top of it, her mother has filed for a change of custody modification. My H has had custody of her since she was 4 and now her mother want her. She has made outragious claims that I am psychologically abusing my SD and the our SD has witnessed domestic violence in the home and is scared of me. I also " neglect her".

Im so tired of this women making my family out to be a horrible thing. Not only does she talk bad about me but also my children. Who does that? My kids are 7,6 and 4 and she make them out to be monsters who are a horrible part of our SD life. If anything it's my SD who picks on them.

Now we have to go to court to prove we are good parent all because this women cant accept her ex moved on.

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Pantera's picture

Submitted by Pantera on Sun, 01/03/2010 - 5:05pm

All I can say is...don't feed into her crap. Kill her with kindness. Courts usually see through this kind of crap. Hang in there and good luck.

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

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Submitted by Conflicted on Sun, 01/03/2010 - 5:39pm

I agree that the court will see through this! It's hard to go through the false or exagerated statements made by BM, ESPECIALY when she is speaking negatively about your own child! (I've been there and that one stings!) Trust that the court sees this kind of bs ALL the time and they will see through BM. It's clear that she is jealous of you.... My bf's ex is the same way.... Smile and find the amusement in the fact that bm's life is so pathetic and unhappy that she has nothing better to do than think of you ALL the time! You (without even trying) are driving her crazy.... Live your life, ignore her (because she really is not worth your time), be happy, love your skids, and take things with bm one step at a time as issues arise... Don't dwell on the 'what if's'... Try to life in the moment. Do what you can to protect your children and yourself.... Other than that.... Let it go....
I know it's so much easier said than done! Good luck to you Smile