I'm just having a bad day today. I am constantly running kids here, there, everywhere. I am physically exhausted. Kids having been so demanding. Did you do this, did you do that, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH. I am on the road every night of the week with practice, ballgames etc. Tonight, I take SS11 to his baseball game. His BM shows up. Lovely. Anyway, the B*tch can't even stay to watch her son play a whole friggin game. Has never offered to take SS to any game. This is not the first time. So when we get home I ask SS11, why doesn't your mom stay for your games? He of course makes an excuse for her. I roll my eyes. Then DH calls and wants me to tell him what's the matter I tell him. I ask him if he would bring me something to drink. He's at work, but does this for himself and others on occasion. He basically says he can't YADDA YADDA. Go figure. I'm just about to tell him that hisself or BM needs to take SS11 to his ballgames and practice. I'm just tired of everyone ASSUMEING this ol' gal has it covered. Maybe I wanted to stay home tonight and get hammered drunk. Just because SS lives with us does that make me responsible for things when DH isn't here? Shouldn't his mother take some responsiblity? I realize that when you marry someone you should be their backup, but when that favor isn't returned where do you draw the line? I guess since I'm a stay at home mom that puts all the duties on me.