BM in my space
Ok I know this is going to probably sound pathetic and dumb. BM does and has always treated me as though I am the shit on her shoe. She says it's not in ss best interest to be around me and my BS's. I can't pick him up from daycare, I can't watch him till DH gets home yadda yadda yadda. She can't even thank me when I pay my money to take ss to store to get items to make HER an Easter flower pot. She teams up with MIL to trash talk me and DH every chance she gets.
NOOOOOwwww here's the part I spent last night bawling my eyes out about. BM sister lives 3 houses from my brother. My mom and brother were handing out candy when guess who comes up. Well ss saw my mom so they hugged and talked then BM decides she can't just say hi and move on like a normal person she has to stand there introduce herself and _________ex wife and talk to my family!!! Tells my mom how much ss loves her yadda yadda yadda. REALY that's my mom my space my zone stay the fuck away!!
I know you probably think I'm being a child but she has touched and tainted so much that this was to be my one me only space. On top of that my mother was nice to her after knowing the crap she does to us! I was so upset and my face is swollen today
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I guess I wanted my mom to
I guess I wanted my mom to give her the cold shoulder but ya my mom is to nice too. It all just caught me off guard and I think that's why is upset me. I think of DH's past being away from my private space and family. I don't like thinking that BM has a connection to that in anyway. I know I'm being childish it just wasn't expected.
I can completely understand
I can completely understand why you're upset, BM trying to muscle in on your mum, but look at it from mum's point of view, she couldn't very well push BM in the chest and say - "I'm not talking to you, you treat my daughter like shit!" Well, I suppose it would have been kind of refreshing if she had, but BM probably took your ma by surprise, and we all tend to fall back on conventional politeness in that kind of situation.