My DH used to call me "nasty" when I would tell SS8 that he had to eat whatever was placed in front of him instead of dictating to me how he wanted his meal prepared. Well, recently he's been experiencing some behavioral problems (hitting himself in head and banging head on desk at school when teacher tells him to do something he doesn't want to do as well as kicking the desk, throwing shoes across the classroom and crying) I told DH that it appears he gets frustrated and violent when he faces disappointment and that that needs to be reversed by eliminating his options for anything. Well just now I overheard SS dictating to DH how he wants his eggs prepared. (No salt or paper...just season salt and cheese) DH told him "Look, you will eat whatever I fix whenever I fix it." Well at least he has some balls this morning, we will see how long it lasts though. Earlier in our relationship SS had DH running around the kitchen. "I want a different piece of chicken", "this is nasty, I want a sandwich", "this isn't hot enough" and DH would "bow down" to his every command. I would just look at SS and tell him to eat his food. (I pretty much knew he was just manipulating the situation to see how far he could get away with it)