Here I was complaining that my skids are really decent people when they are with us and then they get back with BM and act like we have the plague. I also was mad that BM said she would send us their school pics but never has, she said she got christmas pics done after I posted mine, went through hell with the girls to get them cause they wouldn't cooperate, and then only sent them to MIL. Today she sent me a message saying They sent my girls a box and that they could open the christmas ornaments the older skids picked out for them now and the pictures. After 5 years she does have a little heart. Thank you BM.