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Spawns Baby Shower

advice.only2's picture

Spawn had her baby shower and posted about it on social media, interesting to see that she made sure to comment “only got a handful of pictures”…and then the ONLY photos she posted are of her, Meth Mouth, Half-Sibling, and ex Step-Father.  None of her with baby daddy, or with her “daughters” (SDs), or with any of baby daddies family, GrandHag or their friends.  It was so obvious this was done intentionally in the hopes that somehow DH would see it.    I know that Spawn and Meth Mouth have been on the outs for a while, but it appears they have repaired that relationship just in time for Meth Mouth to become grandma and Spawn to have a fall back when things go south with baby daddy.   So this leads me to believe that the “phone call” back in December had less to do about needing that letter and more about her and Meth Mouth reconciling and needing to show solidarity to the person who they feel personally victimized them all those years ago, DH!  It explains why Spawn went off on a tangent about Meth Mouth for no reason at all, thankfully DH shut that down and didn’t engage.  All this continues to clarify to me is that Spawn and Meth Mouth haven’t changed, they are both so wrapped up in their toxic enabling relationship that they have to continue to use DH as their scapegoat.  I’m glad he has chosen to steer clear of this mess.  Also on a side note Meth Mouth did not look good in those photos she looked bloated and haggard and very aged (we are the same age).  Also the outfit she was wearing is the exact same outfit she wore back in 2016 when she had family portraits done with Spawn and Half-Sibling.  Also I joked to my friend a few months ago about what Spawn would name the baby, and yep I called it she’s naming it exactly what I thought.

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JRI's picture

I'm guessing you were spared from having to go, am I right?  Phew, bullst dodged.

Let them swim in their disorder.  SD and BM repaired their relationship for awhile when SD had kids, free babysitting, right?   It will go on and on.

advice.only2's picture

I haven’t had contact with Spawn since she left at 17 to go live with GrandHag.  DH has had limited contact with her since.  She is much like her drug addict mother, she blames us for all the issues in her life, while holding Meth Mouth to sainthood status.

Thumper's picture

Don't you just want to barf when Meth mouths are in sainthood and hero status.

Just goes to show you kids do NOT reject good law abiding , fit, decent parents without Pathogenic parenting present. 

They all can drown in their own drama---I want nothing to do with any of them. 

 

 

 

advice.only2's picture

Yes, it is so sad to see her hero worship a woman who chose a life of drugs and prostituion over her, but all is forgiven because she's mom.  DH never got that kind of forgiveness and all he ever did was try to be the best Disney dad he knew how to.

advice.only2's picture

I don't think he does; he seems affable and probably very laid back (much like DH).  From all appearances it looks like his divorce with his first ex was mostly amicable and that they get along and try to share custody.  I don't think this guy has truly seen a scorned Spawn, she will become his worst nightmare and yank him around by his kid for the rest of his life, it won't end when the kid is 18 that I know.  

thinkthrice's picture

Yet another victim of pathogenic non-parenting.