i found this website 2 weeks ago and it has been a comfort. Sadly, however i have come to a realization that i can not waste my time dealing with a 10 year old daughter of my boyfriend of whom we live together... We had the intent of getting married but i do not want to deal with her manipulation for the rest of my life. I love her but she has so much control over her father, who believes that she can do no wrong. She is a HOT MESS, and will only get worse as she gets older. Just needed to vent... signed a lease today on an apartment so that i can breathe....