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This is what is bugging me about my step daughter right now. She joined the drama club this year because my son decided to and he mentioned to us that some of the drama kids were going to Holland this year....so step daughter jumped on that thinking that she would get a free trip to Holland lol.
She is just back stage help...won't bother with trying out for any parts in the plays. Not her thing.
She just came home with some piece of paper for the FHA club saying she wants to join it now....they are going on an overnight trip somewhere...she was not real clear and the paper contained no info...the paper wasn't even a permission slip! Her dad said no.
She spent all her years in high school doing nothing, except hanging out with the wrong kids. Now she thinks its time to join stuff. She can't make any new friends, because the kids already know who she used to hang out with. She used to hang out with the gangster kids. When the two girls she hung out with graduated last year and left her high and dry this year, she found out that she doesn't have any friends. So she is trying to make up lost time now.
The kids are nice to her, but they aren't willing to befriend her.
She thinks she is going to go to college after she graduates....lol....this just cracks me up because we have been telling her since she started high school that she needed to get good grades and do other activities if she wanted to go to college.
Never listened to us. Her GPA is like a 2.1. She thinks she is going to college with that. We can't afford to pay for these kids to go to college...we were straight up with them in telling them, if they wanted to go then they better get some good grades and earn some scholarships.
I told her, hey its great that you want to go to college, but you are probably going to have to wait awhile to go. You are going to have to save up and pay for it on your own. She thinks she can do that with no problems.
She spends $80 at the book store on comics and fiction books! She saves none of her money! She thinks she is going to move in with a friend after high school. lol
I love how these kids think it is just easy as pie in the real world. I can't wait till she tries to try it out like her brother. They know it all.
She hasn't even had a real boyfriend, and she is going to be 18 in four months! She tells people she is waiting till she moves out of the house. Wow. It is because she doesn't know how to communicate at all.
She tries to tell us that it is just us that she can't talk to....except she has no friends that she talks to either...she confuses work and school acquaintances with friends. She talks to no one on the phone, and no one comes over to see her and she goes no where to see anyone. What friends?
We give her a cell phone....what does she do with it? She gets all the guys phone numbers from work and texts them inappropriately, or she randomly gets guys numbers who come into her work (she works fast food). Not too classy in my opinion. Like I mentioned she has issues that she refuses to deal with. She is a train wreck waiting to happen.
I gotta stop here cuz I could go on all day lol.
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Sorry, that club was FFA
Sorry, that club was FFA (Future Farmers of America) not FHA.
I didn't have a boyfriend
I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 23.
As far as her education goes, is she a bad student because she just doesn't try or is there something deeper going on? Does she get any help at school?
It sounds like she has not been taught any proper social and life skills. Is there a female adult who would be willing to step up and try to teach her these skills?
Oh honey, she has been
Oh honey, she has been taught...she gets to see examples, the whole nine yards...She has been in counseling...she is just lazy. Plain and simple.
Education...she could get good grades if she did the work...again she just chooses not to do the work.
She doesn't need special help at school, she is not lacking the mental capability to do the school work.
I have been there all these years....TRYING to help her and teach her things....that is my point. She refuses to do anything that might have been advice that has come from me.
I HAD a friend of 22 years that tried to step in and "help" out with her....we warned her that she is manipulative, sneaky, and a liar. Step daughter ruined that 22 year friendship. I do not speak to that particular person any longer because she chose to believe the lies step daughter told about her dad and I, even when we warned her. She can not be trusted around people I know and am friends with. She tries to come across as some sort of victim...of what I have no clue. But...I forgave my step daughter and let her stay with us, and ended the friendship of 22 years. Who do you see as trying to help this girl?
Problem is, she doesn't want our help...she knows it all. When we tell her to go for it...go out with so and so then for the night....she won't do it. NO one but herself holding her back.
She is immature.