Busy day today...church, birthday lunch for MIL, and later a birthday get-together for MIL at BIL's house.

Again this morning, SheSloth had the same amount of time as I had to do less stuff, and wasn't ready when we were ready to leave. AT CHURCH, SheSloth tell me and DH that she needs to be at school at 8 am AND needs a black V-neck plain t-shirt! Again...we already have a packed day! SheSloths asks if I have a shirt she could "use". Two problems here: 1) SheSloth is a size large (as she is rather endowed) and I'm a size small...big difference; and 2) even if we were the same size, no way in hell would I ever "lend" her my clothing (would come back ruined or not at all)! When I tell SheSloth no, DH says, "All the black shirts you have, and there is nothing you can let her use?" I remind him I'm a size small! I also remind DH that I don't were V-neck t-shirts (I do have V-neck shirts, but they are all fancier shirts). This is all going on at the end of the service. He is already not happy because yet AGAIN SheSloth wait until the last minute to tell him stuff...so now he needs to fit a trip to Old Navy into our already busy day! As we leave church to head to MIL's birthday lunch, he lays into SheSloth about responsibility, planning ahead, etc. He is so ready to make SheSloth quit all extra-curricular because she can't be responsible enough to keep him informed about anything! Naturally, SheSloth tries to blame the guard coach and captain...saying that they never tell her things until the last moment, or not at all. For once, DH calls her on this! "Well, it seems everyone else always seem to know what is going on...they show up and you don't or they have what they need and you don't...so either they are purposely excluding you, or you aren't paying attention! I'm leaning toward you not paying attention!!!" Uh...aba...um...crickets!

At lunch, the restaurant was not cheap ($12 for a salad...entree's $15+). I find the child's menu, and I tell SheSloth to pick from there. She gives me an attitude because she is not allowed to pick whatever she wants as usual! DH gives me this look and I tell him, "I'm not paying for a regular plate when she won't eat it!" (Child's plates were all $6). How right I was! SheSloth picks the kid's cheese quesadilla...which has beans and rice for sides. The quesadilla was two 6" corn tortillas with some cheese in the middle. SheSloth eats the equivalent of 1 corn tortilla with a little cheese and doesn't touch the beans or rice! Like clockwork, she disappears to the bathroom for about 10 minutes, and claims she is full when she gets back to the table! How can DH be so blind to this?! Of course, she also downed 4 glasses if sweet tea (she seemed to forget this has calories). The sugar drinks are the only reason she doesn't drop pounds!

I've made it clear to DH that I'm done with waste! I just cleaned out the fridge, freezer, and pantry this week! Lots of stuff that SheSloth had asked for in the past, and never are...now expired, freezer burned, or a science experiment! I'm done! She eats what is bought, and I'm not buying anything that DH or I won't eat if she doesn't! That also goes for eating out...child's menu from now on! If she actually eats it and is still hungry, she can order something else when she is done (like at Wendy's or something...she can go back and get another jr burger), or she can have a snack at home (when we are at a place where it takes time to get more food). I doubt she will ever eat more than a kids plate! And no brining it home only to rot in my fridge! I'm done!