Go Away SD13
SD13 is driving me nuts. I want to be the one hiding under a rock because oblivion would be bliss. DH has been at a conference for two days, coming home late, and is fast asleep next to me. But SD13 is driving me nuts.
I get home and she announces that she went to the health room today because she had cramps and was getting hot. The eagle landed for the third time ever and she proceeds to tell me ways that she doesn't have to deal with her monthly visitor. Lol I told her to get used to it until she is in her 50s. Her eyes went wide. Turns out she called DH at his conference, 60 miles away, so he could come bring her home. He told her no, he couldn't leave the conference. Lol SD13 commented on how everything was annoying her today and I just smiled. Told her to lay down and chill, gave her some advice on how to feel more comfortable, she tried it for about a minute.
Later during the evening I was emptying the trash from the powder room and she had a liner in there. Effort was made to dispose of it properly but I gave her hell in front of DH. I have told her I will not tolerate SEEING anything in the trash and to go use your own bathroom! I couldn't believe her reply! "Well its not from my period..." Do I look like I give a Flying f~ck? I told her that I had seen enough gross things with the dogs, that I would have no problem taping her feminine products to her bedroom door next time as a souvenir! Actually, I would but I didn't tell her that.
Fast forward to later in the evening and DH is resting. She comes into our room and states that she has a question. Get out of my room! She asked for the MF'n Halloween wig again! Disrespectful! I cut DH off and told her no we didn't have it and to quit asking! She left and DH asked me if I had ordered it. I said Hell no, because of all of the recent Fs on school assignments! She'll get it at the end of the month! The last thing I need is her getting rewarded for negative behavior and poor choices. You leave lady products in plain sight in the trash, you have Fs and you've been told not to come into our room in the evening asking for shit! Did nothing sink in from the past two weeks, you moron skid?
DH stumbled to the door later and called down to her to get ready for bed. Twenty-five minutes later I hear her going downstairs and the hall light is on. Then she knocks on my door way past her bedtime. I didn't feel like opening it and DH was in a deep sleep. I stayed as quiet as a mouse. I finally had to call down and asked why she was walking around downstairs and to get to bed! It took her 15 seconds to give me an answer. "Well no one answered the bedroom door when I knocked...."
Right Skid, because DH is asleep and I'm sick of dealing with you. A SM can only take so much! SD13 is clueless! I had told her over and over how tired DH was. She just doesn't get it.
So here I sit, venting and hoping for more Fs to show up. She's had a lot of work due lately, a presentation due tomorrow that she pulled together in 30 minutes over a week ago. Frikkin clueless. Lord help me to be patient.
~ Moon
Tape that shit to her door ~
Tape that shit to her door ~ real quick !!!
The liner was in the powder
The liner was in the powder room on the main floor, the bathroom that everyone is supposed to share, but I don't use it. I always go upstairs to my own. I gave SD13 hell because DH pays rent in that bathroom a lot and I told her he doesn't need to SEE what is laying on top in the trash can while he sits on the throne. DH interjected at that point and said, "No, thank you, I don't need to see THAT." I told SD13 to go upstairs and use her own bathroom and if she wanted to leave pads unwrapped in the trash, then she could do as she pleases UP THERE. I told her she could get even with SD19 when she's home from school on break, too.
I humiliated the shit outta her! I was a little understanding and said I knew this was all new for her, but that she KNOWS to dispose of her items properly. I have told her over and over. I told her between her and SDog, I don't need to see any diapers in the trash can. Wrap them up. I told her DH never knows when it's my time because I wrap my things up and take my trash out.
:: crickets ::
Skid is a moron. I like the idea of a Do Not Disturb sign on my bedroom door, lol. Thing is, SD13 has been knocking on our door after 9pm for 2 years now to say good night. I can't get DH to go to her, but I am going to push for that. This babying, huggy, kissy shit with a 13yo at bed time is cute at first, but now it's getting awkward. I am just so exhausted at the end of the day that I snap at SD13 and go off at her when I need to be winding down for bed.
~ Moon
This should do the trick.
This should do the trick. Now I know what to ask DH to get me for birthday and Christmas! }:) }:) }:)
http://www.bing.com/images/search?q=super+soaker+squirt+gun&FORM=HDRSC2#...
~ Moon
DH made dinner tonight and
DH made dinner tonight and while we were eating I stated that I had a request, no a demand. I asked DH and SD13 to say their goodnights somewhere else besides our room. I said it wasn't fair of me to snap at her at the end of a long day, but that when she ASKS for things at 9:15pm at night, I tend to get pissed. I told them I was putting a Do Not Disturb sign on the door and to stay out lol. I brought up the topic of the hoochie Halloween costume that is too big, see-through and will leave SD13 freezing her skinny self to death on Halloween. DH said maybe she could wear leggings with it or something, but it is sleeveless and SD13 has such a small waist that the skirt slides down too low, showing her belly.
Then SD13 says she wants to see The Letterman Show from last night because her Halloween character is on there. I thought she wanted to be a boy?
http://aramajapan.com/news/music/hatsune-miku-to-perform-on-the-late-sho...
I told SD13 that the wigs ship from China and Hong Kong and can take 20 days. The ones sold in the US are sold out. }:) Glad I waited and didn't order it yet because of all of the Fs at school. Anyway, the ball is in DHs court, he thinks he can find a CosPlay wig at the party store.....Doubtful. The conversation dwindled, then DH quizzed SD13 on science for about 2 minutes. At least he's trying. Another teacher sent a lengthy email to the parents about not using the re-do tests as a crutch and to plan ahead the first time. SD13 had a 65% on a test and then did the re-do and got a 93%. Now there is a new rule where the kids can do a make-up test weeks later, when they are ready! That way the studying they didn't do in the first place won't interfere with the new subject matter (which they aren't going to study anyway). I felt like writing back to the teacher and asking her if she was out of her fucking mind. Don't have any re-do's! But then it would look like a bunch of stupid kids went to the school. Duuuhhhhh.......
Can't wait for the next batch of grades to post..... }:) }:) }:)
ETA I found the Letterman link on YouTube....
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x27klwe_hatsune-miku-on-letterman_tech?...
~Moon
They have this new rule at
They have this new rule at SheSloth's school, too! Ridiculous! It used to be if you failed a test, you could come in for tutorials to do corrections ONLY...and at most, you could get a 70% on the test after you did your corrections. This I'm kinda okay with...1) the student has to take the initiative to come in away from their socializing time; 2) the teacher makes them look up the correct answers and correct the tests that they need to study for the mid-term; and 3) the most they could get was a barely passing grade. But to be allowed to come in and totally retake the test, and replace the grade with whatever you get the second time around? No, I don't think that is right! That, and the allowing SheSloth to turn in assignments 3-4 weeks for full credit! That is BS! I like the way my teachers used to do it...you had 1 week to turn it in, and for every day late, you were docked 10 pts. After 1 week, the assignment would no longer be accepted for any credit! I also remember being allowed to do corrections on tests if you failed it for a 70%, but we didn't have the chance to come in in the mornings, so we had 3 days from the day the test was returned to make the corrections, and turn it back in for the credit.
UPDATE: SheSloth's report card came in. Brat made the A/B honor roll! How is it possible that someone with 4 low C's and an F at the beginning of the last week of the period end it on the A/B honor roll? Simple...her teachers are stupid! How is it fair for SheSloth to turn in work 3+ weeks late and get full credit pulling herself on to the honor roll while other students turned their work in on time to accomplish the same thing? Great...another report card I'm going to have to stare at for a year because dear daddy is going to be so proud of his princess that the report card has to go on the fridge! How old is she? 5? And I'm going to be the bad guy for not being proud of her because I don't agree with how she got the grades! Sorry, I can't be proud of someone only doing what they are supposed to do when their back is against the wall and she is in danger of losing her guard spot. How about doing what she is supposed to do all the time?
Dumbing down society! Don't
Dumbing down society! Don't you just love it! No child left behind...even though some really need to be! I miss the days when a teacher wouldn't hesitate to fail a kid who didn't actually learn the material! And then we have these wonderful disney dads we are married to kissing their asses! "Oh, honey, you pulled your grade up! I'm so proud of you!"
I don't know about your states, but here it is all about those stupid tests! The teachers aren't allowed to teach any more! Gotta get them through those tests and have a high passing percentage to get that money, and that matters more than actually putting out adults who can count change!
They get to college that
They get to college that takes lots of dollars and maybe they get in by the skin of their teeth.......and they aren't prepared at all.
StepAside~ She has declared
StepAside~
She has declared that she wants to be a boy. She has told ways of how she can avoid having her period. She has an older sister SD19, so she knows what is tolerated and what is not. She is a moron and she is quite weird. She is annoying although I still try to be supportive at times. My big problem is with DH not parenting and SD13 taking advantage of DisneyDad, but there will be no divorce.
~ Moon