My bios are gone this week, but DH decided SS & SD could stay home...and SD's friend could stay over as well, without consulting with me. Keep in mind DH leaves home at 4:30am and doesn't get home until 8:30pm due to work. I was sick over the weekend and did not go to the grocery store for food this coming week. I made DH aware there was nothing in the house for the kids to eat, but he did not go to the store. When I left for work this morning the only thing in the house was a loaf of bread, eggs, 1 corndog (with 3 children there) and canned foods. There is no cooking on the stove allowed when DH and I are not home, normally if the kids were going to be home alone I would buy microwavable breakfast items & sandwich making stuff. I feel bad that the SD's friend is there and there is nothing for her to eat, but at the same time I am angry that 1. DH allowed the friend to stay without asking if I minded & 2. He obviously thought I would get up and go to the grocery store for him, the skids & the friend AFTER I WAS SICK ALL WEEKEND! The more I think about it the angrier I get. At this very moment I am contemplating getting my own dinner on the way home from work and letting DH figure out what to feed skids, friend & himself. This is completely out of my normal character, I normally would just go to the grocery store on my way home, but considering the fact that he obviously "expected" me to take care of skids and friend I want to refuse. This will cause an enormous fight in our home tonight, and I hate that, but I don't know what else to do to get him to take on his own responsibility plus the extra kid he expected me to care for!