Hello there,

This is my first relationship with SKIDs (SD14 SS15) and I have been in it for 3 years now.

Most of the time it works really well but i am finding MOST of the time i am biting my tongue with ref to the SD14.
She seems to cost so much money, is demanding, disrespecting of any couple time we have and needs to be the constant focus of attention

I want to like her, i want us all to get on - I do get along with her brother, he is a lovely well mannered, hard working lad & very thoughtful.
She however, does seem to thrive on attention seeking. Theyre with us all the time and just go to the Dads every fortnight, though it is emerging that all is not well there - theyre even considering NOT going anymore, they find him "dumb" and also seem to depise his current GF - its very out of the blue and we had no idea. I think the kids have hit an age where they are now telling us what it is really like

I dont mind them being with us all of the time - I just struggle with this gobby demanding attitude!

Any tips!?!?!