Or those like me, who cannot have them. Actually, I probably could, but not with my chronic illness. I am not going to risk it, and at 39, I am getting too old, anyway.
Please don't have any kids until you are absolutely certain, without fail, positive that you want to remain married to your guy. And for the right reasons which means not to bond him to you and your new child. It doesn't work.
Please don'tbe offended, I don't know you SCBeach I just see so many people here trapped by the new kid in a marriage going sour quickly because of the step-child(ren).
I agree about being certain, but I do not know if anyone is ever completely certain. But, if there are issues now that are serious or bothersome, it is not a good idea to bring a baby into the mix.
Or those like me, who cannot
Or those like me, who cannot have them. Actually, I probably could, but not with my chronic illness. I am not going to risk it, and at 39, I am getting too old, anyway.
It's about time!
It's about time!
Please don't have any kids
Please don't have any kids until you are absolutely certain, without fail, positive that you want to remain married to your guy. And for the right reasons which means not to bond him to you and your new child. It doesn't work.
Please don'tbe offended, I don't know you SCBeach I just see so many people here trapped by the new kid in a marriage going sour quickly because of the step-child(ren).
Better yet don't marry a guy with kid(s).
I agree about being certain,
I agree about being certain, but I do not know if anyone is ever completely certain. But, if there are issues now that are serious or bothersome, it is not a good idea to bring a baby into the mix.
Feh! I married a guy with
Feh! I married a guy with kids. He's a pretty good guy. His kid is a pretty good kid. BM and her clan? *THEY* are another story.