:? it does make you wonder how messed up their minds are to come up with this crap!!! It is a shame that I did not think to tell SD 35 how hypocritical she was because what she was accusing me of doing was actually what she was constantly doing to me! SD 35, SS 36, and BM 60 are always vilifying me based upon little if any real information!

- I was told that everything had to be about me because H told SD 35 and SS 36 to tell me goodbye when they were children and leaving my house after EOWE visitation and because I had control in my own household and get to make the decsions about what my bios do or don't do;

- I was told I was mean, cold and "just awful" because I would not let SD 35 tell me what rules I could enforce for my own bios facebook usage;

I was told that I was "mean and just awful" for no longer reminding H to call SD 35 (because after years of her bad behavior I finally disengaged - this of course was after I was erroeously accused in this same conversation of being involved in her and H's relationship :? );

I was told that she did not like me and that she felt sorry for H because he was married to me - that H was a wonderful man ( how she reconciles this statement about H after all of the ugly crap she has told him is beyond me! She has continually bad mouthed H for the past 3 years when she did not get his inheritance and in this same conversation informed me that she did not want a relationship with this wonderful man because of his other time comitments (primarily his 2nd family));

I was accused of driving a wedge between SD 35 and H, not liking SD 35 because she looked like your mother, not wanting SD 35 to have a relationship with H, and SD 35 informed me that she knew "what went on in my house". Where in the world does she get this crap???? I had never had this type of discussion with SD 35 before this marathon call even after 28 1/2 years of being a SM and I had never made any such comments to anyone else either !!!!!

etc, etc, etc.

When you compare the ridiculous accusations thrown my way to what you SD actually did do it is obvious that you, yourself are responsible for the fact that your own actions make you out to be a horrible evil person!!!!!! It really has nothing to do with me. I did not cause you to do any of the following - it was your decision so now you are reaping the results of your actions - ASSUME RESPONSIBILITY and stop trying to deflect blame:

- SD 35 you were the one that demanded a portion of H's inheritance and when you did not get it, resorted to the emotional blackmail of either refusing to talk to H or refusing to talk nicely to him for the past 3 years when H was still in mourning over the loss of his mother (so who is really the mean one here?);

- SD 35 you refused to talk to H for most of the last three years and now alright lie about this and now try to pretend that H refused to talk to you :jawdrop: ;

- You had a huge meltdown because I did not take stepgrands to the show 2 years ago and told my bio that they could not visit stepgrands until my bio learned to be a true friend. With all of your cursing, acccusations and yelling you had my bios in tears;

- As a result of this show incident you cursed H out and told him he was no father and accused H of making you make an A** of yourself with one of the other parties involved in this event - when you did this all on your own! You then incited SS 36 to call up H and go off on him in your defense - as though you needed any help.

- You attempted to tell H and I how we should parent our own bios from where they should be allowed to spend the night, who they can be facebook friends with, to where they were allowed to ride in a car....

- You whined to SS 36 and incited him to call up and explode on us about your being given cash for Christmas two years ago when just a few years before that you had asked for cash.

- You showed no empathy or concern and actaully looked like you enjoyed the fact that my bios could have been hurt when your offroad vehicle caught on fire when they were riding it.

- You told H just 12 months ago that you liked it when he was not in your life because it was easier for you.

- You were reluctant to talk to H and bio when you saw them at the mall and you snubbed my bios when you saw them at the store - then had the audacity to call my bios liars about the last incident;

- You have always refused to invite your father to grandparents day and other school and extracurricular events involving your children in an passive agressive attempt to hurt H and to show favoritism to BM. You even admitted to not sending Christmas cards and photos to H in order to get back at him during our marathon phone call.

- You had the audacity to whine about not having enough time with H but then offered the most ridicuous reasons for why you could not have a relationship with him and see him more.

- You still stand behind SS 36 despite all of the horrible ugly things he has said and done to H, my bios and myself.

As stated in an earlier blog SS 36, BM 60, and SD 35 are ALL masters at being dumber than dirt hypocrites!