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Problems with dh's 19 year old

TinaKay's picture

After a lot of drama, many problems with DH's bio daughter
and her very bad, disrespectful behavior and DH's confusion
about what she wants....

WE FOUND HER MYSPACE PAGE, page after page aafter page about how much she hates him, wants to Fc him up, have him go to jail, she planned on trying to ruin his life, his new marriage...

DH sent her the links to her postings and told her
no more... he was not going to play games with her or allow him to screw up his life
and know what she did? hahahaha
She turned it all around and told him she did not want to have anything more to do with him
HALALOOOOYA !
I feel God has blessed us and now I hope real life hits his daughter and she maybe grows up, not to mention we won't be involved in any of her plotting or drama.
Smile

I suggest anyone dealing with a very badly behaved, psycho adult kid to check them out online on the social networking sites where they like to air all their thoughts ( often evil ones)
for the world to see. It sure saved us and I thank God for those sites and the stupid, immature know it alls who are dumb enough to post on them telling all their secrets !!!!

sparky's picture

I suggest that copies of that be made and given to people that you trust just in case she does something stupid and you need the evidence.

sparky's picture

I suggest that copies of that be made and given to people that you trust just in case she does something stupid and you need the evidence.

TinaKay's picture

UNTIL he read her web bloggings.

He was silent a few days, maybe in shock... and now he has let her go. He wants nothing to do with her, and it may be like this a long time. The things she wrote were evil, not only about him, but things she does to others.
Dh has resigned she has mental illness and if he tries to be in her life, she will only use him and bring harm.
THE REASON I AM POSTING THIS IS TO TELL OTHERS TO CHECK ON THESE KIDS AND YOUNG ADULTS using myspace and all other things. Google their screen names, email addys and cell phone numbers, so you can see whats in their heads. You may get lucky like we did !!!
SHE PLANNED TO HARM US !!!! according to her many bloggings !

yes a nice break for me ! at least for a few years, maybe 5 to 10 and we will be moving out of state in 7... so it looks as if she will not be a part of our lives until she is close to 40.
DH is not even upset about it. He says after seeing what she wrote, he is scared of her and she is evil.
I agree.

TinaKay's picture

Don't know about your area but in mine you can get police reports online. I did this yesterday and plan to do a check every month now that I know how to get the PUBLIC info online.
Be worth it for you to keep up with it at least 2 or 3 times a year to check on her criminal status or whats going on with her and the police at her house.

My step daughter is having people throw bricks threw the windows, she apparently has many enemies as she is also making complaints about phone and text harrassment as well. I keep copies of what I find as she is sure not going to tell us.

I know now its not just me who can't stand her. haha

TinaKay's picture

I would do it anyway and show him what you find. If he chooses to ignore it after that, you should maybe think about if you want to be married to someone like that ( more so if what you find is evil stuff )
so, I would do it anyway.............

I am glad I did because I am thinking she may have tried to poison me or something ( yes my stepdaughter is that evil, her blogs even said so)
and have NO regrets in checking up on her to see whats in her head.

stronggirl's picture

I have been thru this with bio-mom and her myspace page and it really saved me because I printed all of it......put it away for safe keeping...

TinaKay's picture

she is of legal age.
I soooooooooooooooooooooooooo thank God for that
to spare me in that way.