My youngest daughter is now looking at colleges and top of her list is one basically on the opposite coast....a state college. No coincidence it is 1 hour from her father's girlfriend ........yes my ex has a long distance thing and is actually there at least a week every month. And here us the kicker......he is manipulating her to go there and he expects me to pay for it. And yes he makes 4 or 5 times as much as I do. I know if I raise any issues it will push her further there.
My ex is having my daughter spend 2 weeks this summer alone with his girlfriend at her home under the guise as working in her field of business.
Am I threatened? Damn straight! I know that my current husband's wife totally alienated his daughters away from him and I do not want this to happen with mine.
What my situation is a selfish ex who wants our daughter at a school close to his girlfriends home and have me pay for it! And what happens if their relationship goes kaput?
My approach has been to just accept it because if I raise objections it will push her there more.