I have two older teens who both live at home. My ex has been dating a woman who lives a plane ride away and she sent the boys Xmas presents and now she sent them valentine chocolates, all coming to my house. They have met her a few times. My first inclination was that is very nice. She is reaching out as I had done with my dh's daughters. However, never in a milion years would I have sent packages to her (the ex)home. I would have sent them to my then bf's house. I think likely his ex would have had a nasty reaction. Territorial sort of thing? Now I have an ok relationship with my ex, so likely the gf knows that.
Anyway, I have become so jaded and cynical. I should say that I told dh (jokingly) that now I look bad because I stopped with chocolates a few years ago for the boys.
Any thoughts? I know, too much free time this afternoon.