Not sure if this is where I should post this, so let me know I am at my wit's end, have been feeling increasingly guilty about my growing dislike of one of my SS's and elevating resentment of my DH. A little background: We have a crazy blended family. My DH has 2 son's (14 & 7)with 2 BM's. I have 2 son's (15 & 12) with my ex and we have a daughter (7 Months) together. We have been together for 3 years. When people ask how many children we have I always say 5, I do love my SS's, however..... I feel like the only grown up in this anymore and now I am the "evil step mother" for the 7 y/o (well have been for about 2 years now.) I just don't know what to do anymore!