SD15 gets what she wants, yet again.
SD15’s 16yo step-sister (BM’s SD) wanted to make some extra money this year and asked me if she could babysit DD for the summer while I’m at work, ‘cause she knew I was looking for a sitter. I adore this girl, and her 8yo brother would be there too, so I figured it would work and the two kids would have someone to play with. BM wouldn’t be there as she works too. So, all is good. BM asked DH yesterday if her SD can watch the kids at our house, as SD15 is having a pool party. He, of course, said yes, which is fine with me. I was talking to DH last night and asked what was going on that the kids couldn’t be there. He said oh, I just think that it was done like this because SD15 is having a pool party and that way she doesn’t have to deal with the 16yo SS and the other two kids being there??? Oh, that’s right, I forgot…what SD wants goes. So basically SD15’s 16yo SS got kicked out of her own home because SD15 is having a pool party?!?!?!
Must be nice to get your own
Must be nice to get your own way all the time...I sure as shit can't wait for REALITY to catch up to her!
Me too!! This kid is going
Me too!! This kid is going to have a RUDE awakening when she is out on her own. Oh, and on top of always getting her way, her mom doesn't want her to work when she can get a worker's permit, because she wants her to enjoy her teen years. This is the same woman who thinks it's okay for her oldest SD to work during school AND summer, and her youngest SD to watch her brother and my kid for 40 hours a week during the summer.
Wow...double standard much???
Wow...double standard much??? :sick:
and the entitlement
and the entitlement continues...
I feel for you. Ours thinks she actually IS the center of the universe.
I mean- this kid walks in a room and declares, " UMMMMM, I'm like HERE!!" hand on hips and ridiculous swagger. Then of course all of DH's family falls to their knees in adoration. Makes me want to throw up.
Oh, that would make me want
Oh, that would make me want to vomit :sick:
Wow, this could have been my
Wow, this could have been my post! My SD is having her 12th birthday party at my house and her own 2 siblings are not "allowed" to be there and neither are my 2 kids. What kind of DH permits this dictatorship by a 12 year old? Ummm... my husband.
My youngest is having his birthday party at a laser tag place the next weekend and said he didn't want to invite his own brother - lol, they were fighting at the time. Know what I said? Tough shit! He's your brother!
Yep. Going through that at
Yep.
Going through that at the moment!
Last year dd10 and dd7 didn't have a choice, the skids were coming to their parties whether they liked it or not - family is not optional in my book.
FF to last weekend, we are hosting ss(stb)10's party this year, he's making his list. Can have minimum 8 and max 12, and I say "well, there's 4 already, haha, we're halfway there!" (birthday is school hols, always harder to get kids to come as they are usually away or in school holiday care)
He says "4??" I say "yes, you. sdstb13, dd10 and dd7"
The look I got LOL But I made it clear to OH when we started planning the party that this is what we do and I am not changing it or excluding mine. SS will have to deal with it.
Hah! You go Luchay!! Damn
Hah! You go Luchay!! Damn straight SS can bloody well deal with it or go without a party!
Last year bitchface held his
Last year bitchface held his party, she could only get two kids to come.
So internally part of my laughing was because we already have more without even trying
Petty? Hell yeah but do I care LOL