I hate vacationing with SD. I try to get dh to agree top vacation without sd.  I explain that sd goes on vacations with BM,  she gets vacations,  its ok if once we go on a vacation without her. It really will be ok! 

The reason i hate it is that

#1 she's  a know it all.  "Oh we went here, and this is what it's like and we can skip it, cuz I've already been there done that"

#2 she's bossy. "Let's skip that,  I've already done it, it's boring, trust me.", let's have lunch there, i did it when i was with my mom, it was the best. When she finds out we're going somewhere else,  "i thought we we're going there, i said it was the best"

#3 she complains about everything: too hot,  too cold,  bored,  food sucks, there were bugs outside,  the grass prickled her, someone touched her (dd was excited and put her hand on sd's shoulder when she told her she saw a cute boy, sd touches and leans on EVERYONE)

So,  i decided i wasn't to go camping in the fall (not too hot, not too cold.  Sd is already complaining. "You know i hate bugs! Tall are going to be miserable with my constant whining about the bugs!" I'm hoping dh will agree to plan it when sd won't be with us.