Ok never mind hell is as hot as ever!
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Yep Bm just HAD to text not even 24 hours later how much she and her family this time think how much dd doesn't look like me. This time it was another 2 texts to say this. Saying how this is her opinion and her families opinion! Dd has never met her family! whatever! :sick:
I know and I she has it in
I know and I she has it in her head that I stole dh form her. I did not they were in the middle of their divorce and he had been living with his mom for a while. I am trying my best here but after ignoring her for so many years and she still is saying the same crap is very old and I just want her to stop already. Ignoring doesn't seem to make her stop as she keeps doing it saying something doesn't make her stop either. :?
How is it that she is
How is it that she is contacting you? She shouldn't be communicating with you at all. How is it that this statement has not been sent back.
"Please discontinue communication from now on. If you continue I will be forced to block your number or have my number changed"
She is an attention seeker and a huge weirdo. AND I'm sorry that she is doing this to you. She sucks.
On second thought,I like this better
Dear Freak, why do you care so much about my daughters looks and why are you and your family discussing my life? Are you that enamored with me???
I don't swing that way. Stop texting me.
Sounds like she's jealous and
Sounds like she's jealous and hasn't moved on. Next time text her back and tell her you'd love to chat but it's time for more sex with your DH.
Obviously you gave birth to
Obviously you gave birth to your DD so she is your biologically. I know crazy people can find annoying ways to keep picking at you. You have to realize just how insignificant she is. Once you completely stop acknowledging her, then she will eventually (could take some time) find someone else to take her crap out on.
I let my DHs BM of ss7 just roll right over me as she is so crazy. It is just laughable. I refuse to let her use words as weapons. I am untouchable to her. I mean DH and her were divorced over 6 years when I came into the picture. She cheated several times on DH when they were married but can't stand to see him with anyone else. Her pathetic problem, not mine.
Why does she even care? What
Why does she even care? What business is it of hers? that's what I would text back-why do you even care about me or my dd? Please dont talk to me again as *I* certainly dont care what you think
she is not texting me she
she is not texting me she texts my dh. We are very open with communication I prefer it that way. So please don;t tell me that dh shouldn't be telling if she texts or calls and tells me what she wanted. I also read my dh's texts sometimes he reads mine, no big deal.
However ss15 just told me to not worry about his mom and that no one agrees with her about her opinion and that she needs glasses. He is so sweet, I didn't say anything to him he just came to me and told me. He was very comforting. He told me a few other things about how he has to calm his mom down and point things out to her and he also told me that he told her that not everything is her way and no one cares about her opinion. Yeah it is that bad at her house. I feel bad that ss15 is in that position but I didn't know how bad till today. He even said that bm will tell him what they are supposed to do at our house and give detailed instructions but he said he finally told her that she can not control what happens at dads house so he doesn't need to relay it him as she wants. This is the first I have heard of this. SS15 went on to say that he bm told him that she does control dh and everything he does. He looked at me and said she just THINKS she controls dad. I asked him why is this the first I have heard of this? He said b/c he normally ignores her but was feeling frustrated today.
I did tell ss15 not to worry it is ok we all know the what is up and to go play.
I will be talking to dh about what ss15 said today. Any ideas on how to not get ss15 in this mess? As I said it is bm telling him this stuff and he calls her on her bs. As ss15 put "I call mom out on her bs" He also told me that she pulls the single mom card all the time, so much so that he was driving and she pulled it so he pulled over and told her that just b/c she is a single mom doesn't give her the right to act the way she is and to pull that card over every fight. Now I can't control her so what to do?