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The light at the end of the tunnel is NO LONGER an oncoming train!!

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Submitted by misSTEP on Mon, 07/01/2013 - 1:40pm

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Some of you may already know this but it is Monday and I wanted to have some good news so I will celebrate early. Smile

T minus TEN DAYS until CS is officially OVER for SD19 and SS18!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I call it Bitch Payments instead of CS because I KNOW that she uses it for HER OWN lifestyle and not to benefit the skids.

WOOHOOO!!!!

The only thing I am concerned about is a possible BM meltdown of some sort but she hasn't caused any drama in a little over a year now (we haven't heard from her at all. It has been heaven) AND she has a new crotch dropping and victim to focus on.

I think (HOPE) we might be HOME FREE. I feel like calling into Dave Ramsey just so I can yell "FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!" After 14 years, it is about damn time!

Although I am a lot wiser now than in the early days of thinking that we could all co-parent and be one big happy family, I think we are proof that you CAN survive a psycho BM with your marriage intact. Smile

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Submitted by misSTEP on Mon, 07/01/2013 - 1:46pm

I sure hope so. I was amazed that she didn't extend the gravy train to include college for skids. In fact, I am halfway afraid to post that like it is bad juju or something.

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Submitted by Kasey21 on Mon, 07/01/2013 - 2:13pm

Fantastic news!! A celebration coming up for sure!! And I am envious but I know we will get there some day.

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Submitted by misSTEP on Mon, 07/01/2013 - 2:41pm

I was once there, too. At the time, we were still knee deep in BM drama and going to court pretty much every year for BS...but mostly as an attempted money-grab.

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Submitted by Sunflower1 on Mon, 07/01/2013 - 4:37pm

Woohoo!

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Submitted by byebyebirdie on Fri, 07/05/2013 - 9:10am

So happy for you. I too can't wait for that day to come just under 5 yrs now the best thing is skid turns 18 in May and then graduates in June so it will be over on time... I do to believe it does get easier and we will survive too. When I started just letting little stuff go and not tried to control it my life really improved

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Submitted by sarah1980 on Sun, 07/07/2013 - 12:26am

congrads. we still have many years to go and what makes me so mad they don't get a penny...