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Submitted by dispiritedstepm... on Wed, 11/23/2011 - 7:24am

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okay, so i think my relationship may be coming to an end.

BF calls me on his way home from work. BM called him at 3am asking if her fiance, dopey, could stay with us for a week until his mother's new apartment is ready (dopey was banned from the complex they are in now). BM is being released today from the hospital.

BF told her he would have to talk to me first...WTF!

he cant let go of these assholes!

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Submitted by Kes on Wed, 11/23/2011 - 7:38am

They have got to be joking! He can get a room in a motel. Is this the reason you are contemplating ending the relationship - your BF would actually consider letting him stay?

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Submitted by dispiritedstepm... on Wed, 11/23/2011 - 8:03am

yes, among a few other things. dopey has no job, neither does BM.

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Submitted by leftfield on Wed, 11/23/2011 - 8:48am

I've been reading your posts and I think you guys should separate and try counseling....

we have alot in common, btw. my bf can't seem to let go of his exW. It sucks. realllllly sucks.

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Submitted by stired_crazy on Wed, 11/23/2011 - 9:02am

I wouldnt go for it either, I mean im sure they could come up with another alternative...like dont they have friends they could ask about this to? Does either one of them have family of their own there they could ask this to? I agree its a bit much, but if you take a stand and you remain direct about how you feel maybe he will be able to say sorry I cant do that, and if she persists then he needs to tell her " not my problem"! and if she gets really b*tchy about it he can do like I do when people cant no for a answer, he can say gently say " look what I can do,and click"...hang up :)Sometimes you just got to be that hard with people, exspecially if they take you as apush over.

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Submitted by skylarksms on Wed, 11/23/2011 - 9:05am

Leave it to the "evil stepmother" to say NO.

What is with the lack of boundaries with the exes on STalk today??

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Submitted by dispiritedstepm... on Wed, 11/23/2011 - 11:14am

they admitted to exhausting everyone they know, which isnt much cause her family is outof state and disowned her and he only has his mother and brother.

yup, bf is a pussy. he is just like a fuckin kid. he is 6ft, 230lbs mostly muscle and he cant stand up to a fuckin rat who is 5'2 and 112 lbs soaking wet....and on the phone too...smh.