Dreading upcoming vacation
We have vacation starting on Sunday and I am already dreading it. FDH, me, my 2 dd'S and SD leave for California for a week.
We had her last night and she was her usual sullen self. She did thank me for signing her up for gymnastics and said good night. Major progress there I guess. This morning I had the nerve to remind her to go brush her hair and she snapped and me and gave me a shitty look.
Umm, no, I don't think so. FDH told her to knock off the attitude but all I can think is that I am going to be stuck in a hotel room with her for a week. I talked breifly with FDH about my concerns and he assured me that it would be great. I think my attitude is so crappy that unless she is above and beyond amazing it is not going to help.
I am also a littl resentful that I am burning vacation time to go on a trip I dont want to go on. I wanted to go to Mexico and lay on the beach for a week. Nope, I am headed to the stupid redwood forest.
How come you can't go to
How come you can't go to Mexico?
HG - because I have already
HG - because I have already been to Mexico twice this year and we thought this would be fun. This was planned before we all moved in together and his kid sprouted a third eye and started flying around my house on her broom.
There is something wrong with her - oh wait, she is spolied, indulged, ill mannered, not to mention NEVER held accountable for her shitty behavior.
I cannot imagine why I dont want to go on this trip. FML
Oh round2.....I'm so sorry
Oh round2.....I'm so sorry for you. I know you probably don't need to hear this, but their behavior does NOT improve with age. My ss24 is still spoiled, indulged, ill mannered and never held accountable for his shitty behavior. Dh makes excuse after excuse for him and I hate it! His (ss) parents got freakin' divorced when he was THREE!!! WTF?
((((( hugs to you )))))
Don't go. Would not a week
Don't go. Would not a week free of all those problems be a vacation itself? You're not attached at the hip to your husband. Stay at home and garden or knit, go to the shooting range - whatever your interests are or travel someplace else. Perhaps a singles resort on the tip of Baja California.