BM and my money
I posted a video of me riding my new dirt bike, and its all MINE, because I paid for it with my own money (and I am a kid so its mine no one else touch it, look at it, or even think about it lol jk ;))
Any ways.... BM text DH pretty much saying she is glad he can afford all this extra stuff. She wished that he would think more about SD then his toys. He should not really have to explain anything, he pays child support, buys most of SD clothes, pays all the school lunches, and anything extra SD wants. While BM is letting SD sleep on the couch and does the bare minumum for her. Most of the time we send her home with food and money because BM sucks.
He told BM that it was mine and I paid for it, she then still complained! 1st of all I think he should of ignored her but I think he felt guilty thinking SD was upset he didnt get her anything. (only reason BM knew was SD, I have BM blocked so she cant see any thing on my social media any more but SD was friends with me. I know stupid on my part she is now deleted but either way SD would of seen it when she came over.) and 2nd of all if DH did want to buy him self some thing nice what business is it of hers. She always points out that DH has a nice house, and she barely can afford rent. DH drives a nice truck, and hers barely runs. DH has everything he wants and she barely making it. BM thinks that DH should support her to the point she is at the same standing we are. (House size, car size, extras). 3rd off how can she complain about how I spend my money i work for, i didnt knock her up. ( I would of had way better taste in women). She gets to the point she thinks that since me and DH are together both of our income should be considered in child support.
Do they ever learn the DH owes them nothing more then they owe their child also. The DH can only do so much for his child, and if she is not willing to try to give SD the life she thinks she should have then it will never happen. Its like BM thinks DH should pay so they can drive a nice car, have a nice house, and get to do fun things that he works hard for. DH is only responsible for SD, he shouldnt have to support BM, BM's husband and their kid to.
SD has even started being snooty about life. she gets mad about us buy things, yes we have fun stuff, and we have a nice house. But why do we cause we work out BUTTS OFF!!! BM barely works, her husband doesnt. and the SD only sees that we have nice things at our house and the reason that they do not at BM is becuase DH doesnt pay enough child support..
IT MAKES ME SOOOO MAD!!!! RANT OVER 
BM used to always make
BM used to always make comments to skids about us going out all the time and affording to go to the movies so much. #1 I get free tickets donating blood and #2 Our money doesn't get blown on pills and cigarettes so we are able to save. If BM had made the effort she could have a life too!
RIGHT???? And I always want
RIGHT???? And I always want to say if we did pay BM more money she wouldnt spend it on SD and then we would have less to spend on her when she comes over. Its not a money thing its BM thing!
No. They'll never learn that
No. They'll never learn that it's not all theirs.
YSD used to comment anytime I had on a new outfit or new pair of shoes...as a CHILD she did this, always with a knowing eyebrow wiggle. Um. I bought this for myself with MY money. It's none of your business.
BM constantly asks for extras and has asked us what "we" (akak DH and I) can do toward this expense or that expense. Yep. What's mine is hers.
YSD also told me once that she had a dream that her dad and I had a big pile of money that we were carrying around in a wheelbarrow...and then her mom showed up in the dream and told us she wanted some of the money. This was when YSD was 11, and she thought it was a hilarious dream. I think it was mostly innocent...but also a scary glimpse into how her mom must have talked about us in front of the kids. It got into her subconscious somehow...
Our BM on the same channel
Our BM has the same insane ideations... and let me report it was a Glorious Day in StepLife when she no-showed on the 3rd & final CS hearing because the skanky narcissist got ordered to P.A.Y., baby! She turned down pre-court agreement and took DH to court, which cost her (counts fingers, does the math) like $200+ more per month than what my DH had offered. Before that convo, she told DH (referencing me), "Nobody's helping MEEEeeee!" and he just laughed at her. Right before the 2nd hearing, her attorney spoke to DH and brought up the original number, and DH looked at BM and said, "That ship has sailed; that's what I offered and BM took it to court, instead." While BM stood there, ho-mouf agape, and had to tell her attorney that was true (Child Support has that on record, too).
Yes, it doesn't ALWAYS pay to be a crazy selfish beyotch.
I hate BM’s with this
I hate BM’s with this attitude. I’m also divorced and yes my ex pays support but I have also busted my butt working my way up the corporate ladder to provide the lifestyle I want for my home.
Child support should be just that.... support, extra to provide extra on top of what the custodial parent generates.
I think with some people they feel that the world owes them and that the entire paycheque should be shoveled over.
DH’s crazy ex gets huge support and still wants more and pretends to be broke. She gets more in support than 95% of people make in wages from WORKING. She thinks she deserves it all cuz she plopped some kids out and that makes her entitled to sit on her fat lazy ass the rest of her life.
BM told the skids that I was
BM told the skids that I was lucky and was handed everything. LOL. I literally used a bucket for a toilet as a child. My parents are now ok financially but they have never financed any of my life. It's called showing up at a damn job every day, BM! I only went without working once since I was 15 and that was because I was laid off for 6 months.
I will say this, miraculously, BM has kept the same job for the last couple years. I'm not sure how but she has.
I'm mad and annoyed in your
I'm mad and annoyed in your behalf