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auuuuuugh!! clueless DHs!

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Submitted by MadeMyBed on Wed, 10/06/2010 - 12:34pm

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So DH asks my help in reading an email he is composing to BM covering many topics. I advise here and there and he sned it off. Or so I think. I see it up on the computer with a sentence I did not approve Blum 3 !
"sorry it took so long to get back to you, work has been busy"
Red flag! Red flag! Red flag!
First of all- NEVER apologize to that defect of a "woman"! She has yet to get back to us on more important topics from YEARS ago such as growth hormones for SS and therapy for other SS.
Second- When you are paid on mostly commission as is DH, NEVER tell BM "work has been busy"!! Um, what do you think comes next? Uh huh! CS review! Which will no doubtably be based on the highest month ever!

AUUUUUUUGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH! why can men by so clueless! Im so annoyed

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Submitted by Just Dad 2 on Wed, 10/06/2010 - 1:22pm

Don't be too hard on him!!! He is trying to navigate a very touchy situation. Us men sometimes have a difficult time navigating through women's thought patterns and natures. Just be patient with him and explain your reasoning behind a more careful choice of words. I have been there, and believe me it is not going to get any easier. If he has to fight 2 of you it only gets more frustrating for him. He made a mistake, work through it, don't relive it.

RAY