sd spent the night at a friends last night, and spent much of the day today with bm at a large beach around where we live. this isnt bm weekend so im surprised she took sd and sd's friend to the beach. its 8pm and still no sd and bf is trying to call bm to see if sd is staying with her tonight.

i hope so. its so much calmer here without sd. bf is calmer and more involved. bd5 the same way. seems when sd is around, anxiety goes up for all, even the snake and pups.