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A Forum About Coping With Skids Living In A Different Country ??

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Submitted by Sweetnothings on Fri, 06/17/2011 - 7:35am

Hello, I am new here, so forgive me if this has already been suggested!! I have just mentioned it in my post in the Adult Skid forum!!
We now live in a different country than our skids, One Adult Skid, one younger....
Is there anyone else dealing with this problem?? I know in this day and age a lot of people travel for business or like us have relocated in a different country.
Just thought it may be a good idea.

This site is brilliant, many thanks !!

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Submitted by Sweetnothings on Fri, 06/17/2011 - 10:52am

I know I am quite lucky as I have read some of the nightmare stories on here, and almost cry as I know that we were heading down a similar road. Oldest SD lived with us, NEVER again, and because of BM I think we would have the youngest one with us now too !!!
DH divorced when skids were very small always had them EVERY weekend, first overnight but this turned into Fri 6pm to Sun 8 p.m, we never had holidays and I was babysitter when they were younger.....
NEVER again, I know I married a man with children, but it does seem to take control of your lives. Parents divorce, and expect skids to handle very Adult issues at often a very young age, I think this is when the enabling begins, and it becomes a Monster and these skids become the BOSS !!!