Update to this blog:

http://www.steptalk.org/node/176775

So while I was on her bitching about this, DH did call CS. From what he understood and what I understood that you relayed to me is that the only way that DH could stop paying BM CS for MSD is if custody got switched over.

Um okay that makes no sense to me since MSD is 18. Would make sense if she was a minor, but she is not a minor.

So you can go online and view your account and send a message, so I went ahead and did that for DH. I just stated the facts. That MSD no longer lives with BM, she is 18. Any CS should go directly to MSD. Why should BM keep collecting for a child that is not even in her home- that she isnt even supporting.

Not sure what the outcome will be. It just grinds my nerves that she is collecting for a kid that doesnt even live with her. MSD had actually lived with her BF prior, probably for almost 9 months but with MSD being a minor at that time, I am sure it would be a different situation then it is now, as in terms of having the funds go to MSD.

I hate being involved in their CS drama and debated about staying out of it. But that bitch gets enough of DH's money (no problem with him paying CS, problem with her working part time and a low paying job while DH is a hard worker and he has to pay out the ass to compensate for her laziness).