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OSD visit- just as expected....

zerostepdrama's picture

Well it was a tad better then expected.

We havent seen her in over a year.

OSD21, her DH, her baby, YSD14 and MSD18's baby (not MSD) came over yesterday. Thankfully they came over when DH had plans to leave in an hour- so that worked out good.

They all came in. YSD never said hi or acknowledged me. Not surprised. I would have said hi first, as I hate that who said hi first b.s., but seriously every single time she tries to ignore me and act like I dont exist and I always at least say hi.WTF, you are coming into someone's home, at least say hi or acknowledge them. So this time I ignored her.

The visit wasn't too bad. I was pleasant, OSD was pleasant. It helped that her DH was there. Who I had to introduce myself to as no one obviously has manners to do that. He seemed nice. I think it helped that there were 2 babies there to ease any tension.

My sister came over to drop some clothes off while they were here and she was so indifferent to seeing them. So obvious she was thinking "these bitches are mean to my sister, all they are getting is a quick hello". LOL. Go Sis! At least she has my back.

DH's ride came and everyone started packing up to leave and then headed out the door. Everyone left without even saying goodbye. Typical. Rude but typical. I mentioned it to DH today and he was like "They didnt say bye to me either, just jumped in the car and took off."

Before they left DH made plans for OSD, DH and baby to come over for dinner. I guess they were going to get family pictures taken with her skids (2 girls). Well they were suppose to be here over 3 hours ago.

Yep just never showed up. Suppose to be here at 4. At 5 I asked DH to call and find out if they were coming because I was getting hungry. Text and call with no response back. Ummm okay.

Not sure what could have happened that they couldnt even call or text and let us know they weren't coming over. Again very rude.......

DH even went out and got them a Visa card to use for traveling back (they live 6 hrs away)..........

Thankfully they are leaving tomorrow and I dont have to worry about it for awhile. It could have went worse. I just think it's b.s. about tonight, just not showing up......

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Most Evil's picture

They just sound selfish and rude to me!!! maybe they were hoping for more drama??

I am wondering how my Sd will act when she brings her man on vaca with us this year . . . I bet it is eye opening for these guys to see how the sd's treat their parents!! Yes, that's right, true colors LOL!!

I am sorry you have to deal with this. I think you handled it great though!! Smile