Hooray for small victories!

Today DH and I ran into SS5 w some guy who DH does not know. I don't think he is a friend of BMs because this is a pretty small town and DH knows all of BMs friends. He could be a new friend, but I think he is probably a neighbor or a relative of her husband's. Anyway, DH gets upset because 1. She went crazy once when I had SS and took him from me bc I was not allowed to be around SS and it was supposed to be dad's time blah blah. 2. He is mad bc we are forever running into SS with everyone BUT her. Also, SS has told us numerous times that he now lives w BM's mother. DH asked her about this and she said SS sometimes stays w her mother because she works early and can't drop him off at school, w/e I guess it is not that big a deal except apparently this once in a while thing now seems to be an everyday thing, except weekends which happens to be when we have him so she doesn't have him at her house EVER.

Anyway, DH calls her up and asks if SS is w her and she says yes then he says that's funny bc we just ran into him w some guy and he wasn't w you. She quickly says yeah, I meant he was just w me but he JUST ran out for a quick second. Whatever, DH says I don't know who this guy is but you have to be careful who you let watch SS blah blah DH is an over reacter and over worrier and I don't really think it was his place to question BM's baby sitters unless he sees them doing something to SS but since she always questions his sitters he says it was his place. Anyway BM starts getting annoyed so DH says just remember how pissed you got when SS was w my wife and now it turns out you are handing him over to god knows who and she cuts him off and says you may not know him but I do and she clicks. Ok, he shouldn't have mentioned me bc that is an immediate conversation ender but DH doesn't get this. He can be very thick sometimes.

So DH is fuming and texts her, "SS had told me various times that he doesn't live w you, I run into him all the time w your mother, sister, and random ass people, basically anyone but you. If he is a bother to you, give him to me and if SS tells me one more time he doesn't live w you then I am going to take him from you because if the options are living w your mother or me you can bet your ass he is living w me and don't think ANY judge would grant custody to a grandmother over a father." On a side note, we live in MX and it is virtually impossible to take a kid from his mother, but I do believe this is one of the exceptions where the judge would take him from his mother. I am not sure but DH was pissed and wanted to scare her. Anyway, she texted back "haha, you make me laugh you don't even know what you are talking about so don't even say anything."

15 mins later DH gets a call from SS saying, mom says not to not be mad at her and not to do anything, i just went to the store.

Yeah, I thought you weren't scared of little ol' DH.