Bitch has lost her fucking MIND!!!!! Rant
So today I get a text from BM telling me that SS9 told her that I want a baby and that she hopes that isn't true as she feels SO cannot afford another child. Then she had the nerve to ask me what kind of birth control we are using so she can set her mind at ease. What the fuck is wrong with this bitch that she thinks that 1. I would even respond to her after the huge argument she started at SS9s activity 2. She has any input into my procreation decisions or lack thereof 3. She deserves to be privy to my personal medical information.
This chick is really getting to me lately! Based on feedback I received on my blog about our public argument, some people think she might have had a legitimate gripe but I still think the issue should have been between her and SO, not me. Even if she did want to drag me into it, she has my cell, email and knows where I live so she did not have to start yelling at me in public. Also, even if you think that one was legitimate it is the latest in a long line of bullshit drama that she has been starting for the last year and a half, ever since she told SO she regrets their divorce and thinks they could still work it out. I have borne it all patiently (even helped her get a job and deal with some personal stuff) till finally I went off on her as she was screaming at me. I regret getting into it with her but she just won't stop. Now I am having a really hard time putting the tiger back in the cage.....
I am feeling like maybe it's time to give this dumbass a few things to worry about so she won't have so much time to have her nose in my affairs. What do you think?
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Wow. The crazy stuff some of
Wow. The crazy stuff some of you have to deal with.
Oh and for the record.....I
Oh and for the record.....I am not trying to have a baby. A coworker brought in her newborn and I was telling SO how cute he was and how seeing them little like that gives you baby fever for a minute. Apparently SS9 misunderstood that to mean I want a baby and passed that info on to BM. I love kids but mine are more than halfway grown and I'm okay with that. Babies are blessings so if something unexpected happened it would be okay but I'm not trying.
However, it's none of her damn business! And I am more than capable of supporting my children on my own without any help from anyone else, including SO. Which BM probably can't understand since she is not.
Doesn't matter if you are or
Doesn't matter if you are or aren't, that was *way* over the line! Peoples' procreation or lack thereof is no one else's concern. Oh God, I hope you told her exactly where she could shover her "concerns."
She's a jerk. Lose her number
She's a jerk. Lose her number and let so deal with her from here on out.
Does your BF support his son?
Does your BF support his son? If so, that's the extent of any "affording" that's any of her business.
I cannot even imagine asking XH's livein GF what kind of BC she uses. EVER!!
Seriously, I think you need to step WAY out of this with her. Block her from your cell, don't get into catfights at the kid's activities, nothing. Just stay away from her entirely.
SO does support his son. He
SO does support his son. He has never been late on CS. However, he had a union job up until a couple years ago when he was laid off when the economy went bad. He couldn't get another position so he started his own contracting company. He's doing okay, not great. Before he lost the union job, he paid CS plus paid 100% of all SS9s expenses, clothes/school supplies for both houses, medical expenses, haircuts, extras, you name it he paid it. Since he doesn't have the money for all that now, he pays CS ,100% of medical expenses and extras when he can. I have actually been paying for extras like activities and field trips myself since neither BM or SO can really afford them and I don't want SS9 to suffer. BUT I will not pay for things at BMs house like clothes or new decorations for SS9s room at her house.
Also, SO hurt himself working few weeks ago and will need surgery so I imagine that she's worried she will be impacted by his time off but she won't.
Well, then, tell BM he
Well, then, tell BM he supports the kid and to fuck off.
Nicely, of course.
Really, I'd just block her. Don't interact her with her AT ALL.
That's the beauty of not being the one who knocked her up!
Dear BM, Even though it is
Dear BM,
Even though it is absolutely none of your business this is the BC I am using W & P.. A Wish and a Prayer. Happy? And so not to waste your time even further there is a good deal on Kotex pads at CVS Pharmacy. Not to mention the CVS brand of Monistat thrush treatment is just as good as the brand name stuff or so I have been told. I thought you may want to stock up... you know. JUST in case. SS tells us all kinds of tidbits....
Don't get mad with her. Just mess with her.