CPS visited SS
My husband had a falling out with SS over the fourth of july weekend. Since then, communication with SS has been almost non-existent other then a few skype chats where it was just us seeing the baby, no SS. He was prompting her to say stuff but he never spoke to us directly. We just hoped time would help him feel better about us again. The fight was not even provoked by my husband. It is just SS with his anger and trust issues. The moment we get into his life he cuts us out. It is very exhausting for us. But we are sticking to it hoping that SS will come around again.
We got a call from SS, sounding very upset. It turns out that the bitch ex-wife called CPS on her own son. Of course, it was a "anonymous" tip but who else could it be? The hag left a voicemail saying she would do it. A CPS person looked over his apartment and asked him questions. She said she would come back one more time but she said everything looked fine. Of course everything looked fine, SS takes better care of his daughter than himself. He reads to her, hugs her, kisses her all the time. He used to puree all her food from organic vegetables because he did not want her to be exposed to preservatives. That is the kind of father SS is. We are very proud about how he looks after the baby. We see so many horrible teen parents on the media but SS has been working, going to college and looking after his daughter all at the same. He has a life insurance policy on her for Christ's sake! SS said it was humiliating and scary. He finally talked to my husband, although it was a bad thing to talk about. He told SS to look at lawyers just in case. We still have the bitch's voicemail. How stupid is she?
My blood is boiling. That woman has made her own son's life a living hell. She chased away the only good thing in her life. I swear I have not met a more stupid woman than her. At least SS is talking to us again. But does it really have to take bad experiences like CPS visits for him to want to talk to us?
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It is hard with him up and
It is hard with him up and down like this. But, you have to remember that everytime he has something happen in his life that is significant, he does call his Dad. Eventually it will be for the fun stuff too. But for right now, be glad that it is you guys that he is reaching out to. As for the BM, can't you guys do more to make her life a little difficult? She is pure evil to this kid.
You guys are right, at least
You guys are right, at least my SS knows he can call us for help. Hopefully the visits will start again like lucy said. But it can be very tiring. It is emotionalyl draining. And my poor husband is just so stressed from all this. It is hard not to care. I would love to make hte hag's life more difficult but that could harm SS in some way. So we just keep quite. I am about bleed from my mouth from biting it so much. Once I know SS will be safe from her forever, I am going off on the bitch's ass.
Is there anyway that you can
Is there anyway that you can give CPS the recording of the BM threating to call them? I would think making a false report would mean something....(if it could be proved..) What a hateful piece of shit she is......