So I wrote in my previous blog that my SDs don't like me, don't think I'm good enough, want to separate me from my BF, etc.
And so I talked to BM (who is polite and friendly) about it, and she decided to try to help. She arranged for us to go out together tomorrow since she has the afternoon free and the girls will be back from school. BM said that it took a lot of talking and convincing to get them to do it ,but she talked them into it. (She says she didn't force them, but talk them into doing it)
So tomorrow we're doing,and we will ask them if they'd like to go to a restaurant, spa, hairdresser, shopping, etc.
I'm really excited, but nervous too.
BF said it's a great idea and he's happy that BM will help us,and that SDs accepted to go.

Thank you for the idea, december82
And thank you all for replying to my blog and being supportive.